I would always ask for a non-alchoholic cocktail. It was invented at Chasen's which in in Beverley Hills. The drink became known as a Shirley Temple.

Colleen Graham, About.com Guide (2010-04-08). "Shelly Temple (Non-Alcoholic)". Cocktails.about.com. http://cocktails.about.com/od/s/r/shrly_tmpl_cktl.htm. Retrieved 2010-04-21. 

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